Christian, white male, heterosexual.
Phil61
Castro Valley, California | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
First name
Phil
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Thank you for stopping by :)
Everyone gets a "do over".
I am a “defender” (ISFJ-A), emotionally available , like spending quality time with my partner and looking for a monogamous long term relationship.
I believe in God.
Not a “bible thumper” but I consider myself “spiritual, religious".
Philippians 4:13
Have seen and experienced to much to not believe.
Please be local: N.Ca., S.F. Bay Area, East Bay.
Not a "serial dater".
Not interested in a “booty call”.
Relationships must start with friendships.
I treat everyone as a human being until they prove me wrong.
Basically a quiet guy, until you get to know me.
I'm a people watcher an observer.
Separated since 10-2019. Working on closing that chapter, turn the page. Not bitter. We're still friends. I’m o.k. with that.
Able to keep myself entertained but it’s getting old and I like to share :)
Love my family. Family comes first above all others.
Chivalry is NOT dead. If I ask you out, I'm paying. If you ask me out, I'm paying. Sorry, that's how I am.
A gentleman looking for a gentlewoman.
Made mistakes and I’ll make more, we all will. It makes us, us.
We all have baggage. It is how you pack it that’s important.
I’ll admit when I’m wrong, I’ll ask for forgiveness and learn from my mistakes.
I believe in women’s intuition.
Honesty is the best policy.
When it comes down to it, all you have is your word, your honor.
"If a man's heart is good, nothing else matters. And if a man's heart is bad, nothing else matters."
I enjoy most outdoors activities from the Pacific Ocean to the Sierra’s.
If zombies attack, you’ll want to be with me. I have everything we need to survive.
Like to cook. I have family recipes that my mom taught me. Of course nothing is written down. It’s all in my head.
My knowledge of wine is; red for meat, white for chicken or fish and sparkling to celebrate. That’s about it. I'll hold your hair back if it comes to it and be the designated driver.
Don't dance because I end up looking like the gopher in CADDYSHACK but I'll be happy to watch you.
Can't play golf except for the miniature kind so I'll drive the cart or wait for you at the club house.
I have a good career in the medical field.
One of those who works to live.
What I’m looking for;
She believes in God.
Has a good heart; honest, cares about their relationships and is affectionate.
Comfortable in their own skin.
Not obsessed with their weight (salad is a starter not a meal) or if their makeup is perfect (less is more).
Beauty is only skin deep but ugly (not physically) goes clear to the bone.
Good luck with YOUR "do over"
Phil
Everyone gets a "do over".
I am a “defender” (ISFJ-A), emotionally available , like spending quality time with my partner and looking for a monogamous long term relationship.
I believe in God.
Not a “bible thumper” but I consider myself “spiritual, religious".
Philippians 4:13
Have seen and experienced to much to not believe.
Please be local: N.Ca., S.F. Bay Area, East Bay.
Not a "serial dater".
Not interested in a “booty call”.
Relationships must start with friendships.
I treat everyone as a human being until they prove me wrong.
Basically a quiet guy, until you get to know me.
I'm a people watcher an observer.
Separated since 10-2019. Working on closing that chapter, turn the page. Not bitter. We're still friends. I’m o.k. with that.
Able to keep myself entertained but it’s getting old and I like to share :)
Love my family. Family comes first above all others.
Chivalry is NOT dead. If I ask you out, I'm paying. If you ask me out, I'm paying. Sorry, that's how I am.
A gentleman looking for a gentlewoman.
Made mistakes and I’ll make more, we all will. It makes us, us.
We all have baggage. It is how you pack it that’s important.
I’ll admit when I’m wrong, I’ll ask for forgiveness and learn from my mistakes.
I believe in women’s intuition.
Honesty is the best policy.
When it comes down to it, all you have is your word, your honor.
"If a man's heart is good, nothing else matters. And if a man's heart is bad, nothing else matters."
I enjoy most outdoors activities from the Pacific Ocean to the Sierra’s.
If zombies attack, you’ll want to be with me. I have everything we need to survive.
Like to cook. I have family recipes that my mom taught me. Of course nothing is written down. It’s all in my head.
My knowledge of wine is; red for meat, white for chicken or fish and sparkling to celebrate. That’s about it. I'll hold your hair back if it comes to it and be the designated driver.
Don't dance because I end up looking like the gopher in CADDYSHACK but I'll be happy to watch you.
Can't play golf except for the miniature kind so I'll drive the cart or wait for you at the club house.
I have a good career in the medical field.
One of those who works to live.
What I’m looking for;
She believes in God.
Has a good heart; honest, cares about their relationships and is affectionate.
Comfortable in their own skin.
Not obsessed with their weight (salad is a starter not a meal) or if their makeup is perfect (less is more).
Beauty is only skin deep but ugly (not physically) goes clear to the bone.
Good luck with YOUR "do over"
Phil
Sign
Capricorn
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
I Have Kids
Yes - At Home
My Hair Is
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Medical / Health
I Live
With Kid(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
No
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant, Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Religion / Spirituality, Learning, Fishing / Hunting, Playing Cards
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing
An Ideal First Date Would Be
The initial meeting should be low key and some place quiet where we can talk.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Goofy
Views
My Religion Is
Christian
My Political Views Are
Conservative
My Kind Of Humor Is
Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy
Looking for
What Do You Look For?
Someone who is happy with who they are.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Committed