Heart and Mind

First name

James

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I live Life strictly on my own terms and don’t search for the approval of others, but live life strictly on my own terms. I don't chase approval, nor do I perform for the applause of the crowd. I have a strong sense of self and an internal compass that guides me and am unswayed by the societal pressures that trap so many. I want to structure my own life and am basically indifferent to external validation. I don’t think about it much, but independence is primary, and my own authenticity is of major importance in guiding my decisions. I search for a partner who can match my insight and jocularity. A woman who is confident in her own abilities and isn't afraid to challenge them when needed to do so. I look for a woman who doesn't use her body as her main selling point. I am looking for a woman who is confident and ambitious, taking charge when needed, but also knows when to step back and let her man take the lead. A woman who is not afraid to challenge me or offer her own ideas, but she also respects my decisions and trusts me to make the best choices for both of us. She lets me be myself without needing to control or change me, and that's because my ideal woman believes in me and my capabilities. She doesn't compete with me. She is my compliment and I am hers. I am searching for a partner who is assertive willing to explore and open about her desires. She's clear about what she wants and isn't shy to share it making things better for both. I want an equal partner who can take care of themselves and also for me to be there for her when needed. A woman who is willing to put in effort and meet me halfway rather than expecting everything to be handed to her on a silver platter. I am willing to provide for my partner, but I also want someone who can stand on her own two feet and bring Worth to the relationship. I am looking for someone who can hold her own in a conversation. Have you ever talked to someone who really listens and talks back in a smart way? You feel like you're talking to an equal who challenges your thoughts and opinions rather than just nodding along or agreeing with everything you say. This is what I am looking for in a woman and that woman is someone who can hold their own in a conversation. I want her to challenge me mentally and bring New Perspectives to the table. I don't like someone who just agrees with me or doesn't have anything interesting to say. Intelligence and wit are two qualities that are highly attractive to me.

Sign

Gemini

My Body Type Is

Muscular

My Height Is

5' 6 (1.68 m)

My Ethnicity Is

European

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Arms

My Hair Is

Other

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Medical / Health

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Dining, Photography, Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Movies, Dancing, Gardening, Cars

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Extreme Sports, Reading A Book

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Bonfire on the beach at sunset sharing a warm breeze

I've Always Wanted To Try

It have already tried it. but will do it again

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool

My Religion Is

Not Religious

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Very Conservative

My Goal In Life Is

...to live and experience.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Instructional, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, New age, Ambient, Dance

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Philosophy, Political, Science

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Intelligent Conversation

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed